Chapter 5 - The Discovery Phase

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The legal battle escalated with a speed and ferocity that my family was entirely unprepared for.
My mother and sister thought they could use the family court system to bully me into submission, assuming I would fold under the pressure of a public legal fight. They assumed my desire for privacy would override my desire to protect my son.
They fundamentally misunderstood the woman I had become.
During the discovery phase of the visitation lawsuit, Marlene requested every piece of communication, financial record, and documentation pertaining to my mother’s relationship with Leo.
We buried their cheap lawyer in paperwork.
Two weeks before the preliminary hearing, we had a mandatory mediation session via video conference.
My mother appeared on the screen, sitting next to her lawyer, looking haggard but defiant. Carla was hovering in the background, offering moral support.
"Ms. Holt," my mother’s lawyer began aggressively. "My clients simply want to see their grandson. Your client’s vindictive financial actions are entirely separate from the child's right to a relationship with his grandparents."
"They are not separate, counselor," Marlene countered smoothly, not even looking up from her notes. "Because we intend to prove that your clients view the child not as a family member, but as a financial hostage."
"That is an outrageous accusation!" my mother shrieked at the camera.
"Is it?" Marlene asked, finally looking up. She held up a printed spreadsheet. "During discovery, we subpoenaed the financial records of Diane and Richard Ellington for the past five years. Would you like to know what we found?"
My mother’s lawyer frowned. "I fail to see the relevance."
"The relevance is the allocation of funds," Marlene stated sharply. "In the past five years, Diane Ellington has spent exactly $420 on gifts, activities, or necessities for Leo Ellington."
Marlene paused, letting the pathetic number hang in the air.
"During that exact same five-year period," Marlene continued, her voice turning to ice, "Diane Ellington spent $18,400 on gifts, vacations, and activities for Carla Winslow's three children. This includes a Disney cruise, multiple iPads, and designer clothing."
Carla vanished from the background of the video feed.
"Furthermore," Marlene didn't stop, "we have sworn affidavits from three previous nannies and a neighbor confirming that Diane Ellington routinely declined to babysit or visit Leo, citing scheduling conflicts, while simultaneously providing forty hours a week of free childcare for Carla's children."
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My mother stared at the screen, her mouth opening and closing like a suffocating fish.
"There is no 'profound bond', counselor," I finally spoke up, staring directly into the camera at my mother. "There is only a documented, systematic history of exclusion and emotional neglect. And I will not allow a judge to force my son to sit in a room with a woman who views him as a tax on her access to my bank account."